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The bulk of queries received by Ulama organizations in South Africa concern marital disputes. In many cases, the husband is the guilty party.

One of the excuses put forward by the man is the intolerable nature of his wife, claiming that this drives him to seek comfort in illicit avenues. This is a deception of the Devil.

 

BECOMING ANGRY

The Noble wives of the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wa sallam) used to become cross over domestic issues and the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wa sallam) used to pacify them.

 

Umar (radhiallahu anhu) once found his daughter Hafsa (radhiallahu anha) speaking in a loud tone to her husband the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wa sallam). He was aghast, but the wives of the Prophet (sallallhu alaihi wa sallam) knew that he would not be offended in the least.

 

SPECIAL PRIVELEGE

For the general Muslims it was a major sin to speak in harsh tones to the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wa sallam) (Qur’aan 49:2) But the wives of the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wa sallam) were allowed this. It is reported that Aisha (radhiallahu anha) on one occasion shouted at the Holy Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wa sallam). Her father took offence but the Noble Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wa sallam) did not.

 

The love enjoyed between the Noble Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wa sallam) and his wife Aisha (radhiallahu anha) did not preclude her becoming angry with him nor did it entail him taking offence at her words. If only Muslim men would learn and implement this secret of marital bliss.

 
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